Before I continue on explaining about all my absolute facinating, tragic as well as hilarious adventures I do need to explain to all of you my viewpoints on the term "LOVE".
I recieved a question about my blog asking "how can I love everybody?"
Ofcoarse I just write and move forward without thinking that not everybody thinks like I do.
Love to me is everything, for me it is all that exists in truth. If love did not exist nothing would exist, I would not exist nobody will exist.
There are several different types of love, love is unconditional, it is true, kind, honest, open, joy, laughter, generosity it is all good, there is love for oneself (taking care of yourself), love for family and friends (you would do and give anything for them), then passionate love (romance, lovers), true love with a partner (this person you could not imagine life without and will love them unconditionally forever (soul mates).
From young I was frightened and did not recieve much comforting so I had to comfort myself, meaning hug myself, I still do it many times, when my heart is aching, you will find me loving myself in a position where my arms are folded towards myself in a hugging way comforting and protecting my own heart. I had to teach myself self controll, I had to seek wisdom by many different wise people and I constantly prayed every day for guidance in my own mind. Loving myself, meaning nurturing myself with good and wanting to grow to be the best I can be.
As soon as I could properly love myself I could expand my love outwards to the people surrounding me. Helping and nurturing those close to me wanting them to grow into the best they can be aswell.
After a while I could then love a community, then a country untill I could love, accept and understand people on this planet unconditionally and accept and love everybody just as they are.
When i say I love you or someone, I mean unconditionally, meaning accept and love just as you are or they are as well as will help you in any way you need, to be the best you can be. Love for me has no price tag or no label, I do not need payment or proof to love unconditionally, I just do.
I love all yet I fell in love with Milan (the statues, the buildings churches), Duomo, Ronchi's and I love everybody in Ronchi's78.
Please do not confuse my words of love with lust. Absolutely not.
When I love something or someone I will help them in any way possible to grow to be the best they can be.
When I speak of loving a city, I pay attention to all the people, I secretly bless people on the metro, I give to the poor people yet information and inspiration is more needed, also respect, I will not disrespect the grounds, I will not mess junk anywhere, I would rather contribute to the growth of the city than distructing it.
When there is love there is happiness, nutrition and growth, not physical growth neccasarily but spiritual, mental and emotional growth.
I needed to explain this so that all of you readers do not get confused with my writings of love.
I love you all and God bless.
Ronchi78
